ClownFish [JU]
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Talk to your bank, maybe they can do something without a re-fi. Talk to them about your options.That is what I am going to do, just trying to see how pressured I should feel to get it refinanced.
Talk to your bank, maybe they can do something without a re-fi. Talk to them about your options.That is what I am going to do, just trying to see how pressured I should feel to get it refinanced.
Talk to your bank, maybe they can do something without a re-fi. Talk to them about your options.
I didn't say be a dick p'nut, I just said things like this happen to good guys. That doesn't mean it happens all the time, like there's no hope for good guys. Plus it probably never happens to ass holes only because they're already out banging strippers before their chick gets a chance to hurt them.No lesson learned dummy. You can still be a "good guy." Just be a better judge of character, that is all. No need to be an a-hole no matter what these online experts say. Be a nice guy that dates nice girls. Nothing wrong with that.
I gotcha, I don't think I have it in me to be a dick to womens . I just need to learn to think with my head and become a better judge of people rather than thinking with my other head or my heart only....I didn't say be a dick p'nut, I just said things like this happen to good guys. That doesn't mean it happens all the time, like there's no hope for good guys. Plus it probably never happens to ass holes only because they're already out banging strippers before their chick gets a chance to hurt them.
But Tooms friggin' found her angle and made it work.LOL. The two biggest relationship failures on JU arguing.
its a depressed real estate market, with only a couple of years paid on a note.....I seriously doubt there is any equity in the property. in fact I'd say he is upside down on that property and letting her walk away free and clear is an act of extreme kindness.
You may WANT to refi after she signs away her portion, to take advantage of the lower rates, but as mentioned before, TELL her you have negative equity and this will only help her out. Even if, at this point, your home value remains to be seen.
That actually was my first call, waiting to hear back from finance lady today as to what would be my best route...
Letting her walk away without a financial liability or a gunshot wound is extreme kindness.Peanuthead - that's the position I would take on this matter. You're doing her a favor here.
Post your prom pic and prove to him how lucky good guys get every now and then.I didn't say be a dick p'nut, I just said things like this happen to good guys. That doesn't mean it happens all the time, like there's no hope for good guys. Plus it probably never happens to ass holes only because they're already out banging strippers before their chick gets a chance to hurt them.
Letting her walk away without a financial liability or a gunshot wound is extreme kindness.
As bad as CO and Denver specifically is in foreclosures and such, there have been some areas that have done quite well. I won't assume he has zero equity. Potentially he does, but potentially not. I wouldn't even TRY to find out until she is out of the picture.Peanuthead - that's the position I would take on this matter. You're doing her a favor here.
Your demonstrated failure does not mean P'nuthead can't find true love at that same age.
IMO it's best to go out into the world with good intentions and let life unfold before you as you live it. No preconditions = no broken expectations.
Yeah, for sure.Peanuthead - that's the position I would take on this matter. You're doing her a favor here.
Yep, exactly our rate is 6.25, and I know its at least half a percent lower than that (checking now)You may WANT to refi after she signs away her portion, to take advantage of the lower rates, but as mentioned before, TELL her you have negative equity and this will only help her out. Even if, at this point, your home value remains to be seen.
As bad as CO and Denver specifically is in foreclosures and such, there have been some areas that have done quite well. I won't assume he has zero equity. Potentially he does, but potentially not. I wouldn't even TRY to find out until she is out of the picture.
Dude you were dating up.Couple of Pics
I got a new phone and lost all those ones.Yeah, we're gonna need to see that one with less clothing.